Yesterday, when I was listening to the FM933 radio station, the DJ played the 2 Korean songs that he usually played on daily basis. He mentioned that he likes this two songs a lot, and although you do not understand what the lyrics meant, as long as these two songs can make you happy, you keep listening to it.
Sometimes, Feng Shui may not give you full explanation how it come about. But there is this known template that has been used by mankind for thousands of years. So, it is up to you whether you want to follow or not follow. This is very similar to the TCM (Traditional Chinese Medicine). Until now no one really fully understand why this grass mix with that seeds can cure coughing, etc etc. You mom will usually says don't ask, eat the medicine, etc. And it does the work.
So, Feng Shui offers you some rules and templates to rely on. When you follow it, and it is most of the time work. That is because you have given a full thought, and believe that by following a certain rules, it can improve your life. Subconsciously, your mind is working hard and bring in all those positive energies that you had never have before. And you shall have better chances to succeed. Even there is a slight mis-fortune, your higher spirits has overwhelmed over this mis-fortune and makes it hard to see. There is no rocket science here. So, when it succeed, you tell the story to every one and you feel very very good. It's all about your mind.
So, the very first thing in Feng Shui that you believe is find out what is your Kua Number. All humans born in different timing. So, each human may have its own different Kua Number than others. So, based on this Kua Number, you can find out 4 Good directions, and 4 Bad directions. The root of Kua Number is hard to understand. But the outcome is easy. Once you know your best direction, you will try to sit facing this direction. And it is believed that once you always face this direction, somehow the magnetic field makes it very compatible with you body flow, and all the positive Chi will flow thru your body.
This does not mean that you have to sit in that direction every day, every single minutes. Usually, identify those facing that you usually face. For example, your office sitting or when you play Mahjong at your own home, or where you usually sit facing when watching TV, etc.
By following this Kua direction, your mind automatically register a positive hope to improve your life. All these positive energies and thought will kicks in to try to make to your goal unknowingly. And when you got your success story, you always give the credit to Feng Shui. :) Well ... the real culprit to make you success is yourself. If you think hard, next time, you will how to be successful even without the help of Feng Shui. That is something harder.
How do I know what is my Kua Number? There is a lot of websites offering this service.
here is one such example... http://www.about-fengshui.info/kuacalc.html
So, in my case, I am a East group person. and my Kua is 3, and I belong to the Wood group. So as my Son, Jay. And my best 4 directions is in the following order...
1st: South - Sheng Chi - create wealth, best luck, main door should face here.
2nd: North - Tien Yi - health & safety direction.
3rd: SouthEast - Nien Yen - is my relationship direction.
4th: East - Fu Wei - stability, clear thinking...
At the same time, you also find out what is the 4 worst directions you should not be facing...
1st: East - Chueh Ming - total loss, demotion, job loss, illness, bad bad bad
2nd: NorthEash - Liu Sha - face legal problem, family ill problem
3rd: NorthWest - Wu Kuei - fire, accident, back stabbing, quarrels
4th: SouthWest - mishap, accident, leads to losing money, etc.
What I will do with this is...
a. make sure my office desk is not facing the worst direction. to make me feel good.
b. I place a "hundreds birds" picture at southeast at my desk, as too boost the relationship
corner. Remember? The conversation piece.
c. at home, sitting on my sofa, and face East watching TV.
d. when keep losing mahjong, you know you need to bring a compass.
Now, words of caution. If one have a Kua Number and the other significant other has another Kua Number which is conflicting, what and which should you follow? For example, my wife is Kua Number 6. And my best directions are all her worst directions, then how?
This is where your logical mind come back to work again... Think of a reason to be together. Because fate brings 2 of you together must have its reason. And Feng shui should not stand in the way. This is where you will think of positive reason to make yourself feel better. If at this point, you cannot think of anything to make yourself better, and cannot think logically, then, my advise is you should forget all about Feng Shui. Don't ever let Feng Shui to control you. Always remember this! so, some useful assumptions are as follow...
i. if you live together, then, the breadwinner of the house is matter. Follow that.
ii. Fengshui is science, right? if both Kua are opposite, then how, it attracts in someway.
follow that thoughts.
So, remember, do not simply any how to break up or divorce your SO because of Feng Shui. Feng Shui only teach you how to improve your life if possible. So, it is not a strict rule, and it can be any rules in fact, as long as it makes you happy. If after you know that the Kua is conflicting, and you keep on thinking about it... that is a big No No. So, remember, Don't let Feng Shui control you!
Finding your Kua number is very important when you designing your home. Where to put the beds. Which room has the best energies. Where should I put my Sofa. Is the toilet or kitchen actually in your best direction? etc etc.
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